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Manscaping – Even if you're as hairy as a werewolf
It is not a far stretch to say the werewolf wasn’t a fan of shaving. Maybe it fears the razor as much as it fears the silver bullet. Who knows? But if we are to believe the half-human, half-wolf, moon-bather prowled the medieval villages looking for a juicy virgin’s neck to spike. Then, it’s not too hard to strip out the fantasy and say maybe the wolfman was just a real hairy man with a phobia of sharp razors? And his smooth nubile victims represented his fear of a clean shave or what he would discover about himself under all that hair….right? That full moon transformation. We all felt it, that moment when puberty hit. We went to bed as boys with bum-fluff and woke up growling and unrecognisable, even to our own mums. Overnight the moon had its way with us, our inner wolf had reared its ugly head. And there was hair. Lots of it. In places where there was none before. And boy did we howl. There was no going back after we burst out of our favourite t-shirts, ravaged kitchen cupboards and chased she-wolves down the street. Hair was there to stay. Up stepped papa wolf. “Ok son, watch and learn! this is how you tame that wild mess expressing itself on your chin, today my boy, you’ll become a man!”. For most young boys on the verge of hair-hood, it was their dad who showed them the ropes. For others, it was their aunt Irene, or a bigger brother before he left to uni. A real bit of bonding with foam and blade. But whoever your shaving coach was they probably only showed you the cheeks, chin and neck technique. Namely the face shave. It makes sense, your face is the thing that’s most out in public and it’s gotta look half decent, you don’t want anyone thinking you’re a scruffy dog, what would that do to the family’s reputation! Now times have moved on and men don’t mind taking a razor to all of their hairy parts and growing a beard as long as your arm. Hairy men don’t fear razors anymore. The wolf is happy being groomed here, there and everywhere. A shaven werewolf in Paris - body grooming a la mode. Armpits, legs, balls, chests...ears. Today there’s nowhere a man hasn’t been with his razor. If he wants it, his body is hair-free and used to his advantage! Whether he wants less friction when cycling, to be able to cut through the pool like a dolphin or to show his lover there’s more ‘Oh, la-la’ to him than meets the eye. So if it’s for fashion, self-expression or to be faster in a sprint finish we have the hints to tame the wolf. So if you fancy exploring the world of hairlessness, read on, if not, enjoy the moon tonight, it’s meant to be beautiful. General shaving tips. Whatever body part you fancy shaving, there are some tried and tested steps to shaving. There are some specifics which we’ll dabble in later. But if you stick to these general pointers, when shaving, you can’t go wrong. The most important thing is the razor. While some razor companies will tell you to avoid using a razor on your body, we have one thing they don’t – a flexible blade. It’s best to use warm water to soften your hair and prepare the skin for shaving. It also loosens and relaxes the area you want to shave. Shaving over tight skin can be painful. Work in some Foaming Shave Gel. It allows the razor to glide smoothly while protecting your skin at the same time. Don’t use too much even though it might be tempting too. Remember it expands when you play with it. Grip the razor lightly and remember to take it slow. You don’t need to push too hard. The blades are very sharp and your skin is very soft. You do the math. Rinse with cold water to close your pores. It also helps to wash away any leftover hairs. Pat dry. Apply some aftershave cream to soothe the skin after the razor’s done it’s work. This helps the skin recover after the shave. (Our article on how to shave your face covers all these steps in more detail.) Now the particulars of grooming for all your man bits, from head to toe and back again. The eyebrows. We’ll start with the face, so you don’t feel too out of depth. You don’t need a razor for this, so put it back! The idea with the eyebrows is to give them a little tidy-up, nothing too harsh. You’ll need a pair of tweezers for this; pliers will work too, but why would you? If you haven’t got any tweezers, have a sniff in your lady’s make-up bag there’s probably half a dozen buried in there somewhere. If you’re a bushy-brow kind of guy, give them a light going over with some scissors first before you go plucking, to take off some weight. Now, when you do pluck don’t overdo it! just try to take the stray hairs out. You want to neaten your brow-up, not wipe it out. The ears. Remember when you looked at your grandad and thought what the hell is that thing growing out of his ears? Well, its hair and if genes have anything to say it’s coming for you. Now the best way to keep your ear-hair from escaping is to hone it in with some tweezers. Remember hair inside the ear is good, it stops dirt getting in so don’t pull out too many. Some flash barbers also wave a lighter around the ear to take off any fluff on the lobe. If you do that just keep in mind Van Gogh. The nose. When your nose hairs are touching your top lip it’s time to trim the hedge. It’s best to use scissors for this. Cut them as they hang. If you want to go a little further, push your nose back against your face like a heavyweight boxer had just laid one on you, and cut carefully, but not too close, it could lead to irritation and wild sneezing fits. And just like the hairs in your ears, you do need some nose hair to stop aliens being sucked up in there. If you want to spend a little, nose trimmers are handy to have around, you just put it up your nose and watch it rain hair. Feeling adventurous? there’s a treatment that involves dipping a cotton bud in wax then sliding gently just inside the nose, the rest you can hear half way down the street! Don’t pluck unless you want to be reduced to a quivering wreck! The Adam’s apple. The skin over The Adam's apple is a squirmy little bugger, it slides around like a jelly on a plate. The best trick to getting the hair there is to push the skin to one side, shave it gently with a razor and it will shoot back into place the very moment you let go. Make sure to move the skin either side to get all of the hair. The Chest. Ready to reveal what’s under that rug of yours? Been bench-pressing lately and curious to see the result of your labours. Or do you just want to cut through the water like a randy dolphin in an open-necked Hawaiian shirt? Then don’t be shy. We’ll show you how. With minimal effort, a few strokes and the right equipment. You’ll be frying eggs on that hot bod of yours in no time….sssssssssst! You can refer to the general shaving tips section above for the basics. But here are a few chest specific things to keep in mind: Go easy around the nips. They are very sensitive. You may have two of them but you don’t want to lose one. If there are hairs on your areola (the pink bit) that you want to get rid of, it’s best to pluck them after a warm shower. A pec-flex is optional. But as you are alone...why not. Now, where did you leave your open-necked Hawaiian shirt? The Armpits. If you can’t put your arms down by your sides because of the hippy festival under your armpits. It’s time, my friend, to take down the tents and cut back on the weeds. Use a trimmer to get rid of most of the madness. Take a warm shower, to open your pores and soften the hair that is left. Don’t forget to use some Aftershave cream to soothe the skin. That area doesn’t get much sun and can be very sensitive. Let it soak in. When your pits have calmed down, it’s time for a couple deo rubs. Be proud of your fresh little man caves. The Back & Shoulders. Being blessed with your own self-grown fur mantle can be really cosy in the winter but a real bother in the summer. Blame your testosterone. It’s in hyperdrive. Here’s a few helpful tips to say so long to itchy back hair. Ask anyone you trust to help out, they can see your back, you can’t! If everyone is busy, you could strap a razor to a selfie-stick. If you’re going for it alone, take your time. Your back is a big area and there’s a lot that you can mess-up if you go racing around. A hand mirror will give you a pair of extra eyes, so you don’t miss a patch. Use a trimmer to take off the thick stuff. You’ll feel lighter already. Hop in the shower to rinse away the trimmings. The Balls. Not much can come between a man and his two closest pals. And if you’re the type of guy to go that extra mile to show your appreciation. Then maybe a full ball-grooming is on the cards. Now, that area is home to billions of nerve endings, as we’ve all found out, one way or another. So light hands and patience is the key to leaving the bathroom smiling... and still walking. Use a trimmer to take off a bit of weight and cut back any wayward spider-legs. If you’re feeling confident now’s the time to shave a superman logo into your pubic hair. Keep them warm, a shower will do the trick. Shave slowly and consistently as if your life depended on it. The Legs. If you’ve been toying with the idea of shaving your legs, we’ll show you the right way to go about it. Just remember, the skin hiding under your leg hair, hasn’t seen much sun since puberty so they are bound to be a lot paler than the rest of you. Use a trimmer to take the hair down to a size the razor can handle. This will be messy. Lay down a towel to catch the falling debris. Run yourself a bath. Half full. Keep your shaving tools to hand. Slide yourself in and let the warm water soften you up. Work in some foaming shave gel, but don’t over do it. Foam one bit of your leg at a time. Foam then shave. Foam then shave. Rinse. And repeat until you run out of leg. Don’t forget your feet. Smooth legs and hairy feet is just weird. But if weird’s your thing, be my guest, it's your freak show. And let your bed-partner know that’s not a cactus sleeping between you. And last but not least that one lonely hair. It keeps popping up. Same place. Uninvited. What to do? ...leave it. Body grooming done. That’s the long and short of body grooming for now. And to show you that we have nothing against hair, we’ll end the article how we started it. With a wolf. The Wolfman and self-proclaimed “Hairiest man in the world”. Larry Gomez - He’s famous for having more hair than visible skin - 98% coverage. He grooms once a month and while he’s sweeping away the hair from the floor, it starts to grow back. Larry has a rare condition known as Hypertrichosis but he doesn’t let the hair get in his way, he owns it! He wants to inspire other people with the same condition to stay positive- nice one Larry! Hair can make people believe anything. Even in themselves. Til’ the next full moon.
# 2. What she said…about skincare
Skincare… why do many men find it so difficult? Whether for reasons of insecurity or a lack of knowledge, a lot of men aren’t looking after their skin. And while older men see the value in looking after their skin. Younger men are less interested in taking care of their skin. At Boldking we’ve tried to make skincare as simple as possible. Our No-fuss skincare routine has only 3 steps (face wash, face cream & sunscreen.) But many men still aren’t taking the time to look after their skin. So we decided to ask the softer-skinned sex what they think about male skincare. It's the second instalment in our ongoing series, What she said. Maybe the female perspective can change your mind on changing your routine. Hell yeah! We started with the obvious question: Should men have a skincare routine? Every participant, bar one, were onboard with male skincare. The one other answer was a maybe. Her explanation being it wasn’t necessary for all skin types. All the other ladies surveyed were very positive about the idea. The most common reason given is that male skin also needs to be cared for –women already know the importance of taking care of their own skin. Personal cleanliness was also highlighted as a reason. And the need to give the right care for the skin type. We also asked our female interviewees what mistake they saw in men. Not having a skincare routine was the main culprit. (Most of the comments were about a lot of the things that men aren’t doing.) Using the wrong product for the wrong purpose was also singled out, i.e. using body wash as a shampoo, or using hand soap to wash your face. The right tool for the right job, right? We can't be getting it all wrong, right? We then asked them what they thought men were doing better than women for their skin: Almost all participants said men were taking worse care. The one positive answer was that men don’t use a lot of makeup and other products. So we haven’t actively damaged our skin over the years. A lot of the time, less is more. And luckily for us, keeping things simple is more than enough to keep your skin looking young and healthy. Does skincare make us wussies? First off lose that language. It gets no-one nowhere. Now onto the elephant in the bathroom. Does taking care of your skin make you more feminine or less of a man? We wanted to get the female view of this long-standing idea that personal care is only for women. And our ladies really came through with their opinions. The responses ranging from a skincare routine being a sign of sanity to a sign that you’re a responsible man who can take care of himself. The women we spoke to were universally in favour of men taking care of their skin. “I think it’s sexy. It’s a sign of maturity, shows he can take care of himself i.e. he doesn’t need me to take care of him” and “Metrosexual men are generally a lot more secure in their sexuality.” The only caveat is that it’s possible to go too far with skincare and tip into the world of vanity. Vanity doesn’t necessarily make you less masculine, just more pretentious. And is easily avoided by keeping your skincare routine simple.
How to shave your face... and not like grandad
Let's face it. Beards are not for everyone. Some guys seem to pull it off without even trying. They go to bed one night and wake up with a fully-blown Captain of the Sevens Seas warship hanging off of their chops. Now you say “it can’t be too hard, I’ll give it a whirl” and a month later you have a face like a patchy football pitch at the end of a season. Why? Oh, why? Do the beard gods hate me!! We’re here to say F*** it! Beards are not the be-all and end-all. Nothing beats a good clean shave, just ask any man that's ever lived. The face shave is a sacred ritual passed down through the ages, do not disrespect the smooth chinned Pharaohs. They knew what’s up. Why do you think pyramids are pyramid shape - a love for perfectly straight lines. Just the steps Not here for all the details, and just want to get to it. Here’s the condensed version. Warm water. It’s best to use warm water to soften your hair and prepare the skin for shaving. It also loosens and relaxes the area you want to shave. Shaving over tight skin can be painful. Foam up. Work in some Foaming Shave Gel. It allows the razor to glide smoothly while protecting your skin at the same time. Don’t use too much, even though it might be tempting, too. Remember, it expands when you play with it. Let the razor do the work. Grip the razor lightly and remember to take it slow. You don’t need to push too hard. The blades are very sharp, and your skin is very soft. You do the math. Cold rinse. Rinse with cold water to close your pores. It also helps to wash away any leftover hairs. Pat dry. Now’s a good time for the chin stroke. Just to see if you missed a spot, of course. Give it some love. To finish on a good note, use some aftershave cream, it will calm down your skin. It contains Panthenol (or B5 vitamin) which is so soothing, tattooists even use it after they've tattooed someone. The face shaveHow to shave your face. The prep. The start of every shave begins with warm water. It doesn't matter what you're shaving, face, chest or balls it's crucial to soften your hair and open your pores. It prepares your skin for shaving and loosens and relaxes the area you want to shave. Shaving over tight skin can be painful. Washing your face with warm water is the shaving go to, but our recommendation is to have a hot shower first. The time under the water and steam really gives you pores the chance to open. The more open your pores, the more exposed the hair. So for the smoothest chin you want to get under the shower or, if you're feeling old school, use a hot towel to really get things moving. Now is also a good time to wash your skin. Your face is covered with a day's worth of whatever life's been throwing at it. The bacteria on your skin can get into any small nicks or cut you give yourself and increases the chance of shaving irritation. Give your skin the help it needs. Our Skincare tips for men article has everything you need to look after your skin. From tips on face wash and cream to what foods to eat and even face exercises. Foam up. Now that your face is clean and your pores are open, its time to lather on the shaving foam. Shaving foam serves a number of functions. The foam further lubricates your hair and skin. This reduces friction between the razor and the surface your skin, and decrease the chance of shaving irritation. Making it less likely you'll get razor burn or ingrown hairs. Rubbing in the foam helps the hairs stand on end. Standing the hair up makes it easier for the blade to cut. Obvious, right? It helps you see where you've shaved and where you haven't. The foam is a simple way to see what you've already shaved. This saves you from going over the same patch several times irritating the skin. Foaming up is simple. Spray a bit of foam in your hand. Don’t use too much even though it might be tempting too. Remember it expands when you play with it. Work the foam in gently with little circles to lift up the hair. Give it a minute to let it do its work and you're a long way towards a solid shave. Slow and steady Then it's on to the shave. Here again there are a few things you can do to give your hair and skin the best chance possible. Grip the razor lightly and remember to take it slow. You don’t need to push too hard. The blades are very sharp, and your skin is very soft. You do the math. For the first pass go with the grain, i.e. in the direction the hair grows. This means if the hair grows down, you shave down – this typically happens on your face. Hair growing up, shave up – more likely on your neck. For the smoothest possible shave, do a second pass against the grain. Got sensitive skin? You should probably skip this step. Going against the grain is more likely to cause skin irritation. When you've shaved all your face, give it a good look and run your hand over it to check for stubble. You may need to wash off any remaining shaving foam to get a better look. This is an important step as you don't want to be going around with patches of hair on your face. Everything looking and feeling good? Rinse & dry You've got all the hair off and you're feeling shiny as a new pin. You may even have washed off the shaving foam with warm water. Now is the time for a cold rinse. You may be thinking, 'Why do I need to rinse with cold water? I've already rinsed the shaving foam?' or 'I don't need to rinse! I'll wipe off the foam with a towel.' Wrong. Rinse with cold water is an important step. Just like when you washed your face with warm water at the beginning to open your pores, you need to rinse with cold at the end to close them again. You're probably going out into the world to show off your smooth chin after shaving, and closing your pores protects your skin by keeping out dirt and other bacteria. The cold water will also make your hair to shrink back, and your skin tighten up. Now is the time to give your skin one final check for any errant hairs. If you missed anything now is the time to get it. All smooth? Use a towel to pat your skin dry. Pat your face, as opposed to rubbing. Patting is gentler on your skin. Remember, it's just been through a lot. And now is the moment when you can really irritate it. Use a clean towel. You may have closed your pores with warm water, but there still may be minor micro-nicks and cuts from the shave. Getting bacteria into these will make your skin flare up, and you don't want to fall this close to the finish line. Give it some love After shave is a thing of the past. In the old days, men used to go to the barber to get a straightedge shave. And at the end of this prehistoric face shave they'd splash on aftershave. The function of which was as an antiseptic, like alcohol, to disinfect the skin. You'd just been shaved with the same razor as the last 20 guys, after all, so they had to take some precautions. Over time, they added scents to aftershave. Probably so you didn't leave the barber smell like you been on the lash. Now, aftershave is mainly for smelling good. And you're, hopefully, not sharing your razor with anyone. So you don't need the stinging disinfectant. Instead, finish on a good note and use some aftershave cream, it will calm down your skin. It contains Panthenol (or B5) which is so soothing, tattooists even use it after they've tattooed someone. It's the icing on the cake of keeping your face in the best condition possible. You're done You've done the work to get your face looking good. Now get out there and show it off.